Thursday, September 25, 2014

Me and My Community

This school year, Guidance and Library Sciences will continue in the tradition of co-teaching our guidance series for our Kindergarteners through 5th graders.  (Kudos to Ms. Steim, our amazing librarian!)  We will once again, start with our leaders in grades four and five, spending four weeks talking about friendships, how to approach diversity and differences, and ways to prevent bullying in our school.  Weaving through our discussions will be threads of kindness, courage, and community.  Please visit the Lowell Guidance website for more specifics about the "Me and My Community" series.

On the issue of diversity, I learned something rather interesting this summer while taking a course called "Evolution & Cognition".  There has been some research evidence that we are not wired to be racially biased, although many of us actively categorize people by race and culture.  When shown pictures of "people" in generic shirts and different skin colors, subjects sorted and stored (remembered) the individuals based on their skin tones.  When the pictures had different soccer team uniforms instead of generic shirts, subjects remembered the "people" by their teams, or affiliation/coalition, rather than skin color.  Given the evolutionary history of human, it has always been important to our survival to be able to distinguish if someone belongs to the same "group" as us and whether they are friend or foe.

If we learn to recognize ourselves as a community, whether in the form of a classroom, a grade, a school, a town, etc., we will perhaps put down barriers embedded in perceived differences and be more inclined to be interested and respectful in the differences between us.  Seeing ourselves as a community may also help us engage in civil discourse when conflicts arise and help us multiple our acts of kindness.

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

SibShops - Presented by Needham Youth Services

Needham Youth Services offers program for Siblings of Children with Special Needs

Do you have a child with special needs? Are you interested in getting support for his or her sibling(s)? Needham Youth Services is excited to present “Sibshops,” a FREE workshop for siblings of children with special needs. “Sibshops” is a place for siblings to obtain peer support and education, in a recreational setting. This workshop is geared towards siblings in 3rd to 6th grade, of children with special needs. The workshop will be held on Wednesday, April 23rd from 9:30am to 12:30pm. To apply or for more information, please contact Adina Alpert, Clinical Intern at Needham Youth Services at 781-455-7500 extension 268 or by email ataalpert@needhamma.gov.


Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Preparing for the Boston Marathon Bombings Anniversary

As we enter the month of April, and in doing so approach the date of last year's Boston Marathon and the actual Marathon this year on the Monday of school vacation week, some of us may experience a rise in thoughts and emotions related to last year's difficult events surrounding the Marathon.  Surely we may anticipate images and reporting in the media in the weeks to come.  Please take a minute and visit the page below for some helpful ideas in preparation for these weeks ahead.

Riverside Trauma Center Newsletter - Boston Marathon Bombings Anniversary

I encourage all of us to minimize our children's exposure to the media in the coming weeks, especially for children who tend to be anxious or who are sensitive to their sense of safety.  It is advisable to keep the television off, limit their exposure to news on devises, and refrain from discussing these matters in their hearing.  Children who are anxious tend to be hyperalert.  Even if they are a room away, they may be listening to our conversations, especially if we sound stressed or anxious.

If you have any questions or concerns, reach out to your pediatrician or school counselor.  I am sure they would be happy to help support your family through these times!

Sunday, March 30, 2014

A Survival Guide to Parenting Teens - Event

Announcement:

The Lowell School PTO recently received a grant from the Watertown Community Foundation for the purpose of bringing in a guest speaker to talk to parents about the transition into middle school. We have chosen Joani Geltman as our Guest Speaker for Wednesday April 2nd. This event will take place at the Watertown Middle School Auditorium from 7:00 - 9:00 PM with child care provided for ages 4 & up.

Childcare provided for ages 4 & up. Contact Lisa C. to reserve your spot: lisa_capoccia@yahoo.com

Joani Geltman is a child development expert, who loves to work with parents, tweens, and teens, and author of: "A Survival Guide to Parenting Teens: Talking to Your Kids About Sexting, Drinking, Drugs, and Other Things That Freak You Out"

Check out Joani's website at http://www.joanigeltman.com/about.html and her tip-filed blog athttp://joanigeltman.blogspot.com/.



Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Early Childhood Fair in Watertown


Saturday, March 22nd, 9:30 - 11:30 AM at the Watertown Middle School, 68 Waverley Avenue, Watertown.  There will be information regarding local resources and a concert to follow at 11:30.  For more information, contact 617.926.1661 or email watertownfamilynetwork@gmail.com.

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Resources for Addressing Grief and Loss with our Children


Sometimes, we might be charged with the difficult task of talking to children about death, grieving, and loss.  Below are some resources that might be helpful.  

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

SibShops Workshop in Needham

Do you have a child with special needs? Are you interested in getting support for his or her siblings? Needham Youth Services is excited to present “Sibshops,” a FREE workshop for siblings of children with special needs. “Sibshops” is a place for siblings to obtain peer support and education, in a recreational setting. This workshop is for siblings ages 8 to 11 years old, of children with special needs. This particular workshop will focus on siblings of children with Autism spectrum disorders, including Asperger’s and PDD. Priority is given to Needham residents, however, we currently expect to be able to accept non-Needham residents. The workshop will be held on Wednesday, February 19th, 9:30am to 12:30pm. To apply or for more information, please contact Adina Alpert, Clinical Intern at Needham Youth Services at 781-455-7500 extension 268 or by email at aalpert@needhamma.gov. An informational flyer and registration materials are attached. Please note the registration deadline has passed, but we are still taking applications.